By Gerardo A. Bontigao
On the 27th of July, we celebrate the World Day of Grandparents and the Elderly. It is fitting to remember our elderly since they are a key to our past. Their efforts are the foundation of the family we have today.
In Filipino culture, respect for the elderly is not only a social norm but a deeply ingrained value rooted in centuries of tradition, faith, and family life. Elders are regarded as pillars of wisdom, experience, and guidance. They hold a sacred place in both the home and the community because they have lived through hardships, made sacrifices, and nurtured generations. For many Filipinos, to respect the elderly is to honor one’s past and uphold the values that shaped who they are.
From an early age, Filipinos are taught to show respect through gestures like pagmamano (placing the elder's hand on one's forehead) and using polite language like "po" and "opo." These acts are more than mere customs; they are expressions of love, gratitude, and humility. They reflect a recognition that the wisdom and presence of elders are blessings to be cherished, not taken for granted.
The Fourth Commandment, “Honor your father and your mother,” extends naturally to all elders. Caring for aging parents and grandparents is seen as a sacred duty, not a burden.
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